Proactive versus Reactive

Looking at the problems and not ignoring them

Trying to mitigate the damage before it comes

Finding possible solutions for when the inevitable happens

or

Hiding your head in the sand ignoring the problems

Waiting for things to happen and then scream “Help!”

Grabbing onto the first solution even if it is bad

The difference is what you struggle with

and where it leads you

Bad Ideas

Calling in sick

Not plugging in the vehicle last night

Keeping a healthy child home from school

Not eating supper for two nights in a row

Waking up and playing on your computer in the middle of the night

This is what moms who are sick do

Organized

It is useful and desired.

Chaos is beautiful

but not always welcome

unless treated as artistic expression.

When life allows you to function

at peak performance

staying on top of the chaos

can be empowering.

Yet sadly, too many fall victim

to the reacting to pressure

and not enough of the thwarting its dangers.

So, beware my friends of the temptation

chaos lures you with

or you’ll end up like me.

Desperately hoping for miracles

and not finding any.

In my Arms

She is curled up

watching as others move by

doing tasks and things

she doesn’t understand.

She is making things warm

and more difficult for me to type

since I only have one hand free

while the other holds

the small cat to my chest.

As things settle down

I wonder if she’ll fall asleep

because both of us

right now

are content.