Woman or male.
Tasks shared equally
does not mean equality.
It means that those who care to do the jobs
they prefer can do so.
Physically males may be stronger
but that does not mean
Women can not lift anything.
Nor does it mean
a man can not be the caregiver
to the children.
Division of labour
should be just that,
a division that allows for changes
and leeway when the roles are no longer working.
Relationships can be strange
but when you communicate
it can mean the world.
To you or to them.