I don’t meant the one at the end of the bar
He is used to the ones society has already placed upon him
Though starting with him could be an option
If you thought you could convince him that society is wrong
But challenging the fundamentals of his world
may cause him and those around him to dislike you
or even hate you
So begin wherever you wish
and take care that you may no longer be welcomed at that bar
Saturn's Premier Poet 